Why I allow my 6 year old son to play Fortnite πŸ™ƒ

Fortnite. The one thing Mother's dread...Fathers love and Children adore! I've always been quite over protective of my children, I had PNA (post natal anxiety) which i don't think I've ever quite recovered from but learnt to deal with over the years. This meant my oldest child, Oliver, has always lived quite a sheltered life, … Continue reading Why I allow my 6 year old son to play Fortnite πŸ™ƒ

10 things that will make you feel EXTREMELY uncomfortable.

Ever since I was little I've had irrational fears. Fears that, unless I put myself in those circumstances, would likely never happen! And yet, some nights I lay awake, curling my toes, making my hands into fists, gritting my teeth and cringing at my own thoughts, thoughts that make me so uncomfortable, i thought it … Continue reading 10 things that will make you feel EXTREMELY uncomfortable.

You’re not a bad Mom.

Can you imagine going through 9 months of anticipating the arrival of your baby, the months of shopping for clothes and imagining what they are going to look like,decorating the room with personal touches, daily going through different names in your head, imagining how content you’re going to feel when the new addition arrives, like … Continue reading You’re not a bad Mom.

5 Reason I am BLESSED with Anxiety β€

Life is all about perspective. Sometimes i am crippled with anxiety, house bound and anti-social. Other times i am loud, outgoing and confident. It really depends on what’s going on in my life to how i react to a situation. Anxiety plays a leading roll to my reactions, I may not responde to an everyday … Continue reading 5 Reason I am BLESSED with Anxiety β€

When society tells you you’re not beautiful

Since I can remember society has pushed their "perfect" body image on us, ironically with its ever-changing ideals of what "perfect" is. I have heard: You can't be thin. You can't be fat. Size 0 is acceptable. Size 0 is not acceptable. Make sure you have junk in that trunk. Big bums aren't attractive. Big … Continue reading When society tells you you’re not beautiful

5 reasons why I loved having a budget wedding πŸ‘°

Me & my now husband have never really been the romantic type. PDA isn't what I'm into and we lead quite a private life on the intimacy side, you would probably see a sighting of BigFoot before you saw us announce our undieing love for each other on social media. So when we decided to … Continue reading 5 reasons why I loved having a budget wedding πŸ‘°

10 things I’ve realised since having a boy πŸ’™

Boys! One thing i never envisioned was being a momma to a boy. Whenever I glanced at my future I'd see barbies, rainbows, unicorns & doll house's- the future was girly, the future was pink! So when the ultrasound practitioner told me she defiantly saw a proud boy part floating about, I felt a little … Continue reading 10 things I’ve realised since having a boy πŸ’™