Since I was a little girl I was aware, not everyone's family dynamics where the same as mine! I'd witnessed divorce, re-marriage, separate families becoming one big family, I knew not everyone's mum/dad was their biological parent and not all families are the stereo typical nuclear family. I remember watching Byker Grove when I was … Continue reading A Different Perspective: Being Adopted.
Sometimes, the smallest of steps bring the biggest of triumphs & that is certainly how it felt last April 2018. Picking up the phone was easy, admitting I felt mentally unstable & a danger to myself was hard. I'd been to my local doctor the previous day, i walked in the treatment room forcing a … Continue reading Mental health awareness week: My experience with Inclusion Matters, Wirral.
Meet Horatio Gates Spafford. Haratio was a prominent American lawyer and Presbyterian Church elder. He is also someone i like to refer to as a “Modern day Job” For those of you not familiar with the story Job, Job was a man of God. He had everything- land, live stock, a good family and was … Continue reading Why does God allow bad things to happen? Hope amongst the wreckage.
Before I was a Mother, I dreamt of being a Mother. Every Toy I had growing up would be centred around mothering something. I remember telling my group of girlfriends in school id be the first one out the group to be a Mother! It turns out I wasn't & I still had a long … Continue reading Stop the Mum shaming…Right Now.
Fortnite. The one thing Mother's dread...Fathers love and Children adore! I've always been quite over protective of my children, I had PNA (post natal anxiety) which i don't think I've ever quite recovered from but learnt to deal with over the years. This meant my oldest child, Oliver, has always lived quite a sheltered life, … Continue reading Why I allow my 6 year old son to play Fortnite 🙃
8 things to know if you're dating someone from Wirral. Browsing through Facebook before I saw a post by the Liverpool Echo titled The 10 things you know if you're dating a scouser After finishing the article, it inspired me to do my own version for all us Wirral Wools. Purely tongue and cheek....😏 If … Continue reading 8 things to know if you’re dating someone from Wirral.
Relationships can be hard at the best of times, they take time, dedication, understanding, sprinkled with a hell of a lot of patiences! But in a world where you can filter out the bad times and only show the highlight reel, some can become a place of control, torture and abuse where no one really … Continue reading A different perspective – Leaving an abusive relationship.